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Save Our Children

In today's world, safeguarding the safety and well-being of our children is essential. Below are expert tips on recognizing grooming, identifying sexual violence against children, implementing prevention strategies, and responding effectively if abuse occurs. Perpetrators can be of any gender and may include older children, relatives, family friends, strangers, professionals, or people from the family’s community, such as religious leaders, coaches, early childhood educators, and school teachers.

What is sexual violence against a minor mean?

Child sexual abuse is a form of child abuse that includes sexual activity with a minor. A child cannot consent to any form of sexual activity, period. When a perpetrator engages with a child this way, they are committing a crime that can have lasting effects on the victim for years. Child sexual abuse does not need to include physical contact between a perpetrator and a child. Some forms of child sexual abuse include (but are not limited to):


  • Exhibitionism, or exposing oneself to a minor
  • Fondling
  • Intercourse
  • Masturbation in the presence of a minor or forcing the minor to masturbate
  • Obscene conversations, phone calls, text messages, or digital interaction
  • Producing, owning, or sharing pornographic images or movies of children
  • Sex of any kind with a minor, including vaginal, oral, or anal
  • Sex trafficking
  • Any other contact of a sexual nature that involves a minor. 


Understanding Grooming: How to Recognize the Warning Signs

Grooming is a process in which an individual gradually builds trust with a child, their parents, caregivers, and environment to facilitate future sexual abuse. This often involves forming a close relationship over weeks, months, or even years, allowing the person to gain increased access to the child and create a foundation for later exploitation.


Signs of Grooming in Children and Teenagers (Including Online Grooming)


Grooming can be subtle and often mimics normal adult-child relationships, making it difficult to spot. Whether it happens in person or online, trusting your instincts is key if something feels wrong. It’s important to monitor your child’s behavior and be aware of any concerning changes.

Here are some signs that may suggest a child is being groomed, including through the internet:

  • Excessive communication with a specific adult or older individual: Your child frequently talks about or spends a lot of time communicating with someone online or in person, often seeking to meet them privately.
  • Relationship with a much older person: Your child may become involved in a relationship with someone significantly older, either in real life or through online platforms.
  • Sudden change in routine: They begin skipping school, sports, or other activities they once enjoyed.
  • Change in friendships: They start distancing themselves from their usual friends or suddenly shift to a different group, especially one they met online.
  • Isolation: They spend a lot of time alone, particularly in their room, often on their phone or computer.
  • Unexplained gifts: Your child receives new toys, clothes, jewelry, or electronics without being clear about where they came from, which could indicate online grooming.
  • Secrecy or lying: They become secretive about their activities, especially regarding who they are talking to or what they are doing online, and may lie about their whereabouts or actions.
  • Reduced communication: They stop sharing details about their day or no longer seek your advice as they once did.


Monitoring online interactions and maintaining open communication with your child can help in identifying and preventing grooming behaviors. Ensure that they understand that they will not be in trouble if they speak with you.

Identifying Sexual Violence Against Minors

Warning Signs of Child Sexual Abuse


Recognizing the signs of potential sexual abuse in children is crucial, as these warning signs can vary significantly from child to child. They may manifest immediately or become apparent later in life. Symptoms can be categorized as physical, behavioral, or emotional. It's essential to remember that displaying one or more of these signs does not definitively indicate that a child has been abused. Instead, look for patterns of behavior that may suggest ongoing abuse.


Behavioral Warning Signs

Children may exhibit various behavioral changes, such as:


  • Acting younger than their age (e.g., bedwetting, thumb-sucking)
  • Night terrors or nightmares
  • Inappropriate sexual behaviors for their age
  • Fear of being touched
  • Taking on a caretaker role or being overly protective of younger children
  • Changes in hygiene or clothing preferences (e.g., avoiding bathing, wearing baggy clothes)
  • Easily startled or having intense fears
  • Post-traumatic stress symptoms, including anxiety and irritability
  • Changes at school (e.g., aggression, withdrawal, frequent illness, declining grades)
  • Running away from home
  • Self-harming behaviors (e.g., cutting, burning)
  • Shame about menstruation or puberty
  • Avoiding certain people or places
  • Suicidal thoughts, especially in adolescents
  • Over-involvement or obsession with grades or perfectionism in sports


Emotional Warning Signs

Emotional indicators may include:


  • Feelings of shame or guilt
  • Distrustfulness
  • Powerlessness or hopelessness
  • Low self-esteem and feelings of worthlessness
  • Anger
  • Depression and anxiety


Physical Warning Signs

Physical symptoms that may indicate abuse include:


  • Bloody underwear or diapers
  • Torn underclothing
  • Bruising, swelling, or irritation in the genital area
  • Urinary or yeast infections
  • Difficulty urinating or having bowel movements
  • Pain, itching, or burning in the genital area
  • Sexually transmitted infections (STIs)
  • Pregnancy


Observational Indicators

Sometimes, children may start to disclose abuse through small comments, such as expressing discomfort about going to a particular person's house or mentioning that someone is "gross." Pay attention to these cues and encourage them to share more. Changes in behavior can also signal that something is wrong.

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Source: 

Child sexual abuse and warning signs. (n.d.). https://www.michigan.gov/voices4/about/child

Child Sexual Abuse | RAINN. (n.d.). https://rainn.org/articles/child-sexual-abuse

Grooming: recognizing the signs. (2023, January 13). Raising Children Network. https://raisingchildren.net.au/school-age/safety/online-safety/grooming-signs

Signs of sexual abuse - early, open, often. (2019, April 12). Early, Open, Often. https://www.earlyopenoften.org/get-the-facts/signs-of-sexual-abuse

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